hoping this is our month!

It's coming up on a year in Jan that we decided to try to conceive. I got my marina iud taken out after having it in for 5 years everything went back to normal right away my period my cycle everything but we still haven't had any luck... but of us have daughters from previous relationships and I still haven't become pregnant. every period causes me so much pain I see all these women who don't want or deserve to have children because they are drug addicts or becoming pregnant only because they think it'll keep there cheating man stay become pregnant so easily and it just seems so unfair we try everything and nothing I'm at the point where I just want to give up because it just causes me to much pain every period... I'm hoping this month is our month!