I'm 26 weeks pregnant and my pregnancy has been hell for me. I married someone who I thought was everything. When I met him he was going thru a rough patch I was 16 he was 20 he didn't have a job and lived in his moms house. We got pregnant with our first and he wasn't the same he talked to girls and had an affair. over the years I caught him with a fake name and profile on tinder or facebook. I always forgave him because I wasn't perfect I messed around as well. we got married this year and finally moved out of my dad's and got our first place. I'm 22 he's 26 our son is 5. I'm pregnant with our second son and I feel like the family is falling apart

there were certain people in his life he cut off I couldn't stand them 1 his 2 friends were always talking shit about me he would say they wouldn't but when we would argue he said they would, he told me he fucked his friends girlfriend one time then changed the whole thing around and said he said that because he wanted to me to leave him. his friend doesn't know but I feel like he is being truthful and did have sex with her. now his friend is dating a girl who bullied me tried to jump me when I was alone in the locker room told me to kill myself etc my husband knows this and he tried getting with her 2 yrs before he met me. he was then bragging now his girlfriend is really nice and wishes I was like her etc. his friend is expecting a baby with her and he hasn't talked to his friend in years since he cut him off. we just got off the phone and he went off on me saying I can leave him he thinks of the baby as his own he's going to the hospital and going to be there for him every step of the way. I just don't understand if you guys liked each other and she was obsessed with you why are you talking to her I feel uncomfortable he knows this but doesn't care. now his second friend is a bum and only does drugs all day.

my husband works a state job and he called dcf on me many times because I used to smoke and I completely stopped 4 years ago and his friend had him smoke weed. every time we argue my husband goes to his house. he told me today on the phone his family and friends come first so fuck me that I could leave him he needs his friends right now because he has nobody. like I said in due in 2 months and I need my husband more then anything right now but the way he treats me telling me I'm getting big or he choses other people over me I feel torn. I just feel like it's time to let go. but if I do he says it comes with rules. he has to still live here in the condo hell come home super late and sleep and I'm not going to be okay with that if someone breaks up they want to be separate why put me thru this.hes making my life hell and he's my first love but he's a changed man. I was adopted so I have no family who's there.i need advice and support