What was it like your first time having sex? I'm still a virgin but want to take it up the next level but I'm scard of what all could go wrong or if it's going to hurt or not. I'm pretty good a managing pain but I don't want to be in the moment and have to stop because it hurts. does it hurt the first time? is there things you can do to not make it hurt? me and my Bf have done some stuff but have not actually have sex. he says it's up to me cause he doesn't want to rush things. What was it like?