I will be 5 weeks on Sunday...Christmas <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">Eve</a>/Day we are telling immediate family that I’m 6 weeks with baby number 2. Well, I was planning on telling MY family. Last time we told my husband’s family I was pregnant at 7 weeks. It was the weekend of Mother’s Day and we made it very clear that we did not want anything posted on Facebook, because not everyone knew. Well, my SIL—who has been using Facebook for years and is very proficient with it—posts “Happy Mother’s Day!!!” On my WALL on Facebook for everyone to see. I was livid. It was our first, so it’s not like we had other kids and that’s why she said it.

We lost our daughter at 28 weeks to Bladder Outlet Obstruction...a very rare disorder. His family pretty much blamed us, saying the doctor should have done a C section and his aunt said it was because I exercised before pregnancy. So I’m not exactly thrilled to tell his family, but he’s insistent on it and I know it’s not something I can hide forever. I just know she’s going to post something on Facebook. What do I do?