My bf did some things with a girl months prior to us dating (they never dated). i've noticed how he always defends her (which 2 of my other friends noticed too). one of my friends brought up some things about her & he tried to claim them as false even though we know it's true. I dont want to be a controlling gf telling him who to talk to & who not to so I just said it bothered me that he still talks to her (to see if he respects me enough to stop talking to her) & all he said was "it's not like Ima do it again or do anything at all with her"

how would y'all feel? or say?