It's ok for a man to cheat the woman might take it for years til she gets fed up and decided to cheat to show you how it feels now all of a sudden she committed the biggest crime ever and you "can't go on like this" now you start questioning her every move

Now tell me something when she trusted you and didn't have to because she had proof you were cheating why was it ok for you to do it now the one time she did it she created the biggest crime ever?!

I'm not saying it's ok for "revenge cheating" and cheating is never ok or tolerated but this dishonesty has to end