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So I have a question for you guys . How long do you introduce your boyfriend/girlfriend to your parents?? I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now and I’ve been at his house and I still haven’t met his mom .. he’s always saying she’s tired, her schedule changes, met us at Disney but later his “mom” would say she looks terrible and tired. My boyfriend already seen my whole family by 5 months together... the days I would go to his house was days I had off and he would tell me “your finally gonna meet my mom “ but once im at his house he would be “she actually works today “ .. It’s actually been bothering me , I’ve told him once and he didn’t say much and now it’s bugging me again .. I need advice girls 😕
today I asked my boyfriend if he’s coming Christmas eve or day ?? I told him I wanted him Christmas eve if it’s possible.. he told him mom and she got upset and of course I got upset and emotional... I’m most likely not seeing him on Xmas eve/day because his mom wants him both day.. he told me the family is getting together on Christmas eve! So why am I not seeing him on Christmas Day ?! just GREAT !!!  Now wtf am I suppose to do ?! Am I overreacting??

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Maybe he's not too sure about the relationship. I mean when a guy really likes/ loves you he wants to show u off and get his mom's approval. Just be honest and open with him, and ask him why you haven't met his mom/ family. He's obviously hiding something.

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If my bfs parents were alive I would’ve met them within the first few months. He hadn’t even talked to his siblings in person for 2 years but I met them 2 mos in... thats sketchy. 
I had an ex who wouldn’t even mention me to his family. I’m still convinced he was cheating on me but I left before I gave him a chance to prove me right! 
I’m so glad I did because I adore my man that I have now - you need to sit down and talk this out with him, and if he still doesn’t introduce you I’d be gone.

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huge red flag girl like so big. why is he hiding you from his family? is the more important question. I always met a guys family within 3 months or less and the same with my family

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Couple of questions:
Are you his first relationship? If not, has he introduced other girls home before? I️ think if he has done those before and not doing them now, it could be a red flag, but if he has never introduced a girl home before, it could be a bit harder for him than for you. 
Just talk to him and tell him to be straight up, if he is not ready, he should be able to tell you and you should respect that and don’t force yourself in that situation, everyone’s family is different.

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