Never had an orgasm ??

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Just looking for advice. I’m 20 and embarrassingly never had an orgasm. I have a very healthy and active sex life and masturbate often but as soon as I feel myself start to get close it’s too intense and I wimp out or just can’t continue. Tips? Tricks? Advice? Help?!?

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i am literally in this same exact position i always back out once i feel the pressure coming? tf is wrong with me why cant i enjoy things? asking for a friend lmao

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i used to be like this and then my fiance bought me the most amazing things ever they are called jiggle balls... you insert them inside you and wear them for as long as u like then when u have sex or masterbate its very intense... the other thing is my partner usually knows when im about to orgasm and he will rub my clit while inside me... it worked for me... fingers crossed for you xx

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So far i have only orgasmed through sex once. It helped when i really really trusted the guy Nd we spent a lot of time building up the moment through texting and talking weeks before we even first went on a date.  
When we finally had sex I also stopped thinking about needing to orgasm and i just let myself enjoy him touching me. I had no expectations and i relaxed. Next thing you know i was falling into the rhythm and the big o slipped out. 
Just build up that special moment with a guy by getting to know him and becoming extremely comfortable with him. Also, make sure that you get LOTS of foreplay!!! And foreplay isnt just making out. Its like watching a movie and feeling him caress your leg or play footsie with you for a long time until u are really wet and THEN kissing and light touching until you want to rip his clothes off.
I notice i cant come when I’m worried about 100 different things or i dont trust the person enough. So sometimes having multiple sex parters doesn’t help, its mostly just having a good moment of sex with someone you trust.

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Same !

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