What do I do now?

Question

1. My husband has always disliked the idea of abortion
2. After many losses, we agreed that we would not be having children together
3. I am on birth control
4. I am scheduled to leave for the military very soon
5. I am pregnant
I have absolutely no clue what to do. Nothing feels right. I wanted to have a child with him so badly, for so long. I'm excited about leaving for the military. I know that he will be upset when I tell him that I am pregnant. Even if he agreed with my having an abortion, he would secretly resent me. I cannot ship if I'm pregnant. I cannot abort our baby and be ok with myself. I can't believe this happened. What the hell do I do?

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Keep the baby. You won’t regret it

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It’s really up to you and your husband, but if I were in your shoes I would have the baby. This could very well be the last chance that you have at getting pregnant and if you’re going to be feeling guilty for not having it, then talk to your husband and see what he says. I know you’re in a tough spot but I know you can get through it. Stay strong and do what is best for you!

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If you really want a child, now is your chance. Especially if you’ve had several losses and no luck with pregnancy. Now is the chance. It’s your choice above anyone’s. Do YOU think you should take the chance with this pregnancy and not ship out, or do you think you should abort and have difficulty trying again. Not trying to persuade you into one or the other just trying to help you see your options. 
My mom tried for years and had several losses before having me and when I was born, I wasn’t breathing. She was in training to become a State Police Officer. She gave up her dream job when she found out I was on my way into the world. She knew she wouldn’t have another chance. She tried for another baby and was never successful.

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Do whatever is right for you in your heart. Whether it’s abortion or keeping the child, just know my messages on here are always open if you need someone to talk to.

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I thinks it’s a sign/gift/miracle, whatever you want to call it! If you’ve tried and never thought you would conceive, and now there’s a chance? I’d say definitely take that chance!

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Talk to him about it. See what his first suggestion is and his initial reaction. Then see how you feel as well.

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yes maybe thats i sign stay and keep the baby

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