So we have a friend that's expecting a boy here in Feburary. He was a surprise and both parents are super happy but didn't plan to ever have kids. She sent out a link for registry items for the shower next week and it's mainly alcohol related? Funny wine glasses, bottle openers, frames that go along the lines of "mommy's wine time", even alcohol detection strips for breastfeeding. There's only 2 things for baby but I told my husband I just want to get a gift off registry. I don't feel comfortable but he's insisting we need to stay with what the mom wants.