I am now almost 3 months postpartum. My husband and i tried to have sex right when i got cleared at 6 weeks and it was way too painful so we stopped. A few weeks later we tried and the only position i could was spooning and it was veryyyy uncomfortable. Yesterday we tried again and it was still too painful. Like i mean so painful i cry and can’t continue. Should i call my doctor or is this normal? (And before someone suggests these let me say everything else is great: we do plenty of foreplay and i used lube so it’s nothing with that). I miss being intimate with my husband and i don’t know what to do!!