Husband and I are having issues... help!

So, my husband and I have been together for about 4 years. Been married for around 4 months. We had a death in the family and it really tore us apart. I felt dead inside for months, i wasnt cooking for him anymore, we werent really spending time together anymore, we were both in bad places. Well one day he decided to "break up" with me. Well, we didnt talk for a while, then one day he called me like nothing happened, he still talks to me basically the same way, he still looks at me the same way he did when we were together. We have had sex a few times. He even comes over randomly just to talk to me and watch movies. Every time he calls me or he comes over we end up talking for hours. He always tells me hes "not gonna stay long" but he ends up staying for 8+ hours.

I still love him, i havent told him but i feel like he knows, because he just knows me that well. What should i do?? What do you think hes thinking?? Help!