A rant about ignorant people

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Omg people suck!

So it's Christmas Day, and I'm with my husband's family. Everything is going great, except for when my father in law called my husband and I out in front of everyone. ("Why haven't you had children yet? I want grandchildren, you lets face it, you guys are getting to be too old").

I get that his comments may come from a place of good intentions. But seriously?

I'm 28. Im not too old. I was so mad! Seriously?? I would love to have kids! I've had 4 miscarriages over that past 2 years, and for him to bring all that up on Christmas is so upsetting.

To top it off, my husband didn't have a problem with what his father said.

I get that some men don't make an attachment to a child until its born. I get that. But with each child I ultimately miscarried I made that attachment. I made that bond.

And to be reminded of that on Christmas?? Seriously I'm so sad right now.

How do you handle nosy people bringing up TTC?