TTC but trying not to ruin sex for my husband?

My husband and I have been TTC for 2 months now. We keep seeming to miss my ovulation date due to busy schedules and us not finding the right moment for it. We have been having sex the day prior and the day after however. Do you think it's really important that I make sure I'm also having sex on my actual ovulation date? Also, how should I go about bringing it up and pushing for it on that day? I don't want sex to become something which is only about baby making. Thank you in advance for your replies