so I'm probably gonna catch hell for even saying this out loud and it not bothering me a lot but it is a little and enough I want to ask if I'm just being a brat or if I have a right to be bummed. so... I paid for round trip airfare and a rental car for my husband to go on a weekend trip with his friend AND other gifts for under the tree so you can imagine a spent a significant amount. which I'm totally fine with I spent months saving specifically for it. but he knew because I obviously had to have him coordinate plans with his friend. so I didn't expect him to match me to the dollar but kind of just thought it would give him a price point or budget I guess for my present(s) well I got 3 gifts yesterday but nothing major and now I just feel disappointed. and I guess part of it is he gave away a great deal of my kitchen appliances so I figured he was getting new ones but I didn't. so not only do I feel slided I feel like I have less then I even did before. yea I'm probably just being a brat but Idk if I'm alone in feeling this way or if others would too.