I hate when people say “you seen his characteristics why have a baby by him” first of all if i knew he would be like this do you think I’d have a baby with him? Do you think I’d waste my time speaking to him about starting a family if i knew he’d switch up on us? Do you think I’d be carrying his child if that was the case? NO some men don’t show their true colors until AFTER the fact he clearly had me FOOLED think of that before you judge a woman on why she had a baby by someone she had no clue would switch up at last minute when shit gets real