husband Problems 👋

So it started Tuesday one of my friends has been along a pass at my husband it started by her messaging him and he didn't reply to her he told me about it right away I message her off my Facebook and she said she was just asking him how he was doing? But I read those text you was saying for him to text her if he ever gets board or for him to come visit her? Not okay with me she is suppose to be my friend of 11 years:::((( anyway Monday night she poked him on Facebook and keep on poking I don't even know what poking means but he did t tell me about it so the next day his phone went off and he asked me to look to see what it was when I did I told him it was a Facebook nofication and he said open it then that when I seen she was poking him I asked him about it and he told me I don't even know what poking is I asked my brother??? That pissed me off because why would he ask his brother but not even tell me if I didn't look at his nofication he never would have told me::((( he said he didn't want to start a fight over nothing but I got mad and we went to bed mad the next day we didn't even talk really and then when he got home he was being a jerk and I asked him why we have to fight he ignored me😥😥 then he later asked me to do something I said yes hold on and he said you never do anything right then I am asked if all you do is put me down and say I don't do nothing right then why are you with me and he SAID I DONT KNOW I ASK MYSELF THAT EVERYDAY😰😰 so i got upset and come to the room and went to bed still not talking but he held me all night long I didn't touch him back I didn't talk to him nothing when he got up for work this morning I didn't say anything he kissed me goodbye do you think he was just mad at said it or could that be how he really feels😰😰 
We have been together 11 years this year happy lip married what I thought and two kids I need some options please