Drop it?

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I saw that my boyfriend was Skype messaging cam girls asking for cam sex. This looks like it was in July of this year. We have been together for 2 years. I dont really know how to go about this... It upsets me but I don't know what to do..?

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You don’t drop it. You drop him.

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Confront him. That is not okay. If you let it go he’s going to think it’s okay and continue to do it. I’d honestly be furious and confront him the second I found out.

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dumped a guy for the same bull shit then met my hubs...jussayin.

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I picked confront him but I mean that’d just be for me to tell him why I was leaving. Idc about porn but actually contacting people for cam sex is too far for me.

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Do yourself a favor and drop him. I would confront him with the evidence and as politely as I can tell him to move on and go fuck himself.

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That’s cheating

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Confront him and then dump him 😎

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Wait never mind I mis read it. If he was on like livejasmin or streamates - THOSE are camgirls. SKYPING girls on a personal account asking for cam sex no no no not okay. Never mind disregard my last comment (unless he’s on those sites and those sites only). Skype is too personal just drop him.

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I’d ask him about it but don’t come at him crazy. Cam girls are the same as watching porn. They don’t meet. They don’t touch. Those girls are performing whatever pornographic fantasies men have, similarly to porn... and all men watch porn and I think it’s wrong for women to tell them they can’t cause it’s not real and if you think your bf or husband “can’t watch porn” I think you need to grow up (not you but in general). Cam girls can seem intimidating cause it’s like omg it’s a real girl... but it’s really not. Those girls it their job, they are acting, the personalities they portray aren’t their own. So even if he is chatting with her and having her play out his fantasies it’s not real or who she really is so emotional attachments can’t be made you know? I would ask him what’s missing and drew him to cam girls, why he’s doing it, if there’s something sexual he wants to explore so he doesn’t want to do it anymore. Hear his feedback and thoughts without making it an argument, AND THEN evaluate if you’re okay with it, if he needs to stop or if you should leave him.

Drop it?

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