My wife and I were trying at the same time. I conceived but she didn't and she took it really hard. I feel like this has really put a strain on our relationship and it's hard to enjoy my very first pregnancy. Last night, I look up and see the bear that she got after her last miscarriage up on our shelf. This is the first time that she's opened the package the bear came in so I feel like she's trying to deal with the loss but I feel bad for being pregnant. It's like no matter what, I'm the bad guy for being fertile.