Honestly...

I don't want to try anal, but my boyfriend does. I have gastro issues and the idea of bothering my bum more than it already is makes my nether regions retract inside my body 😩 I'm otherwise very sexually lenient and rarely say "no" to things. But I know he wants to and I've told him I will let him, because occasional anal is something standard that he wants in a relationship. Everything is great other than this. Sigh.