Total loss of sex drive on pill

I have been on the pill for almost four years and I noticed it lessened my sex drive a little but the last couple of years, this is going to be TMI i have been having problems getting “wet” or he will say that I am but to me I fell dry or not too wet. It tends to hurt a lot in the begging and I really just don’t want to and it’s not like me. I just switched to taytulla from lo loestrin. The OBGYN said that it was due to the fact that my body was getting too little estrogen and it has to adjust. Was wondering if anyone had this same problem or something similar? Or had any tips? It is affecting my relationship but we are working together to try to remedy it, really considering going off it completely but my blood clots on my period are crazy, flow is so heavy, and it will last for over a week and won’t let up.