Controversial: Porn and masturbation

I'm just curious:

I see so many posts about porn being unacceptable and a form of cheating. So my question is, USING PORN IS CHEATING AS THE LOGIC how is masturbation then not a form of cheating?

Surely your partner could be thinking of someone else whilst masturbating, you'll never know for sure s/he is only thinking of you to get off.....?

Please stay on topic as it'd otherwise be just another "porn is ok/not ok" topic

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