why does everyone take pregnancy for granted?

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everyone unless having had a loss assumes pregnancy means baby. I got those two positive lines back in July and by Oct at 14 weeks and a day when I was supposed to be Safe my baby's heart stopped!!! I had to give birth in the most inhumane way and now EVERYONE around me is pregnant!! Two months of trying to conceive with nothing and af due in two days with bfn on test this morning. looks like I am out again.

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Not everyone takes their pregnancy for granted. And just because you had a MC doesn't mean they have to word their announcement differently. A lot of people announce early because if anything we're to happen, then they'd have support. There's no reason to be salty about it, your time will come too. But being bitter towards others isn't going to help your situation.

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People are naive sometimes. My first pregnancy, she’s now 16 months I never thought about MC no one ever told me to worry about that so I didn’t think there was a reason I shouldn’t tell people right away. 
On my second pregnancy I had a MC. It was only then I learned about MC and how common they are. And to wait to announce until it’s “safe”
So people aren’t insensitive towards pregnancy hey are naive.. hey don’t think something like a MC can happen to them
Sorry for your loss

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This is true. I’ve had two miscarriages myself. Recently in October. With twins. Now I’m 11 weeks. I shared that I was pregnant again immediately with my family. Because I wanted the support of it happened again. Luckily everything has been okay. I don’t take one day for granted though. Not one. Sorry your hurting. It gets better after a while. Not completely, but not a constant thought.

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Everyone? I think most people don't take it for granted!

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It might still be too early for a positive! Don’t count yourself out until AF arrives. Fingers crossed for you!

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I agree that people don't even consider it as a possibility. I didn't. I fell pregnant with my daughter at 21 and straight away and never considered it for a second. so much so that I told all my family straight away when I fell pregnant in October. unfortunately that ended in MC. Now I'm desperate to get pregnant again but at the same time I'm terrified. Hearing all the stories of women having MC after 12 weeks makes me wonder if I'll tell people until I absolutely have to.

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most people don't take it for granted.

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You guys can say what you want while I have had 3 "friends" announce they are pregnant "before it's supposed to be safe" when I waited and they think it just means boom baby at the end....I feel cheated and they are counting it as they will be lucky...

why does everyone take pregnancy for granted?

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