Men who change from sex freaks to never wanting to touch you.......

My man doesn't hardly ever kiss me during sex and it makes me so angry I'll say kiss me and he pecks my lips like a damn chicken. Pisses me off I want to be kissed like u love me not like some one night stand.... He never wants to touch me he wants to get straight to business or tells me to bend over.... Idk if its good or bad when it comes to him getting off quick I mean sometimes he can go for hrs then other times its fast... I can hold it for a while but gets mad BC then it takes forever to get off when he holds it.

He used to randomly touch me and play with me while I cooked or was doing dishes he'd pick me up and put me on the counter he used to always kiss me and rub my body and tell me how much he enjoyed it. And now I have to like beg for it. I'll say u wanna have sex and he's like I guess or my stomach hurts or I'm tired or I'm watching my show. He'll say later and end up falling asleep. Idk why he's like this now its like its no enjoyable to him anymore... And I do things I'd never do with another person I'd never even talk to another person how we talk. I've let him do things to me freaky stuff diff objects hurt me choke me make me pass out tie me up force me hit me and he says I'm the best ever and freakiest & no one else would do the things I'd do..... So I'm not sure what I have to do to get that back or if he'd even go back to how he was before..... Its frustrating BC he has cheated and I always feel like that's why he is how he is now.. We're trying to conceive he wants another baby and so do I but you can't go weeks or months without sex when you say "you're happy"..

Idk what to do.... It makes me sad and like I'm unattractive.... Ughhh