What should I do??? PLEASE HELP

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So I’ve been dating my bf for 1 year and 3 months and we have been having sex since our 9th month of dating and he never want to give me head and I ask him why Bc I first I thought it was me and then he told me no it’s just he thinks he’s not good at it and the one time he did do it to me it was omg😩😩💦💦 perfect and I don’t him that but he still won’t do it 
So now the bad news this guy just came on to me I’ve known him for a while and I’ve known for a while that he has liked me and today he came to chill with my older brother and he came to me while I was in my room and was like “ i know this is weird but I really like u and i really want to lick that pussy of yours” and Idk what came over me but I let him and I feel really bad and not to mention but when the big O was about to happen I moaned my bf’s name and he just kept going and I felt really bad and I knew I messed up idk if I should tell him tbh I don’t know what to do at all plsss help I love him so much and this is just a bad way to start 2018
I should add he’s cheated on me but not sexually 
But I am in no way trying to justify my actions 
He didn’t tell me I found out by looking though his phone

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You cheated. Tell your boyfriend, he deserves better.

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First of all, you cheated so you have to tell him. Be honest and it is up to him what happens next. Tell him why as well.
Second, oral is 50/50 and if he ISN’T, you DONT. But maybe he doesn’t like oral either, but you do, well then he has to figure out if making you happy sexually is something he is willing to do or he needs to move on.
You sound young so I’m guessing he has some performance anxiety and maybe he really thinks he’s bad. Well the only way he will get better is with practice and listening to you. That’s the only way. So tell him that.
Remember that everything is give and take. So if there is something he would like you to do sexually you may not be comfortable with, then you have to make sacrifices too. Sometimes bringing that up can help. Maybe say “I REALLY like it when you give me oral, is there something I can do for you that you have always wanted to try?”
Good luck.

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If you don’t admit it, it might eat you up inside with guilt. The way I see it, if you cheated, and he cheated, you aren’t ready to be together anyways.

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if you two both cheated i think theres a reason why and its not going to work out unless ya put more effort and talk about it. you wouldnt have cheated if he gave you oral so clearly he isnt making you happy if you needed it from some one else. You should be honest but emphasize why you did it.. he wasnt pleasining you and meeting your needs but also tell him you want it to work out.

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Girlll you have two options..
1. P E T T Y 
You don’t tell your mans if you really love him and if he’s really in love with you. And you’ll afraid a it will do is ruin him you know, also if you do y’all break up and be lonely... you can talk to your mans about giving better head communication is key you know. And as for the other dude make it a one time thing and that’s it. Because if you continue moving on with this it will only get nasty. But if you regrets it and want to continue to build on your relationship and not let this completely ruin your love then go ahead. And he cheated on you too sooooooo 
2. Truth
You tell him the truth because you wouldn’t want him to do the same to you.

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Cheating I personally hate. He cheated without sexual action, and you did. It's wrong. You cheated sexually not to mention you let him put HIS tongue on YOUR vagina for YOU ato feel pleasure. Your boyfriend on the other hand will probably be much more devastated, angry and will feel such remorse as what you both did, yes it was wrong but YOU TECHNICALLY HAD SEX WITH A GUY that isn't your boyfriend. I'm sorry to have to say this but your both terrible people. 
Good luck anyhow. I guess.

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