Why the hell does he do this??

Question

So me and my boyfriend will be chilling watching a movie right and then after awhile I’m laying on him, he starts grabbing my ass, running my thighs, massaging my ass, touching me whatever. I’ll get really wet, he feel around my vagina but not put a finger in. But he’ll do this for a prolonged period of time, like an HOUR or more. As soon as he feel I’m wet like soaking he’ll tease like he’s gonna finger me and then he’ll move his hand and pull my panties up. Then he’ll start the process all over again. 
Teasing is good and helps get me really wet to the point I really want it- I think that’s common for a lot of people. But after a while the hornless turns to frustration and that turns to irritation.
Sometimes I just wait it out. But lately I’ve been getting irritated with this routine and at that point I start to dry up from irritation and then I’m just left irritated AF and sexually unsatisfied.
Today after about a 90 minutes of them I got up, without saying a word and I kept a chill attitude so he wouldn’t think I was upset and I just got on my phone to calm myself down, as I’m typing this, he just crawled his ass over here and placed his head in my lap. I’m not understanding the purpose? Is it some sort of control thing?
Does anyone else’s partner do that to them?

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Ummm. Maybe he’s waiting for a response.
Enjoy it with physical responses, and he’ll get more into it instead of just messing with it.
When my guy did this, when I was right on the edge and couldn’t hold back anymore, I put my hand on his and guided his fingers in. 
He thought it was the sexiest thing.
With sex, you just gotta verbaloze

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initiate! grab his hand and put it where you want it or tell him you want them in ya! i mean just be up front and forward about it, take some of the control back! it’s hot as hell when things get a little heated, he’ll probably love it!

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He's probably waiting for you to make a move

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Uhh perhaps you should also reciprocate and feel him up too to show you want more and to speed the process up. Make a move first.

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That sounds pretty awesome! I’d be jumping him or taking my clothes off seductively damn!

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lol i get how frustrating that can be but maybe he thinks it turns you on and teases you to the point of wanting it so bad? Maybe he wants to see you get wild and pin him down and get rough ?

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once you get to the sexually frustrated part that's where I have learned that you have to take what you want. dosent hurt to tease him a little either.

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Maybe you should talk to him about it

Why the hell does he do this??

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