should i let my boyfriend do anal???

Question

okay so my boyfriend always asks to do anal and i aLWAYS say no bc like, bitch, tf am i gonna get out of it!? but maybe it’s not so bad? our 1 year is coming up and i wanna spice things up.. should i let him or nah??

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oh my god girl the first time I did it it hurt so bad because I just shoved it in. TERRIBLE IDEA!!! BUT THEN... I wanted to try it again about a week later. I never thought it could feel soo good. I literally had one if the best orgasm ever. We did it on our side position with A LOT of lube and he stretched me out first and began to put it in little by little. I felt a little weird at first but after a while it just felt good mainly because he began to play with my clit. Then he reached for the night stand and pulled out the vibrator. WHEN I TELL YOU THAT IT WAS ONE OF THE BEST ORGASMS I MEAN IT!!!! So my biggest tips for enjoying anal is to relax, use lots of lube, have him stretch you out, have him play with your clit or if you can use a vibrator!!!! But I think the most important is to actually want to do it as well other wise what's the point? Have fun girl and do what you want!

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Look...anal feels good, no, GREAT...IF:
YOU REALLY WANT TO.
If you’re only trying to make him happy, your body won’t relax enough for you to enjoy it.
YOU TRUST YOUR PARTNER
Nothing is worse than a guy who gets too excited and shoves his dick in too early! Make sure you talk to him about listening to you, and making sure you’re comfortable.
Lastly...yeah it hurts at first. Not gonna lie. It hurts the most right at first, when he first gets the head in. Then it hurts as he pushes the first few times. But after that, it starts feeling AMAZING!! Just make sure you have lots of lube 🍆🍆
Also, it helps to just get into the act. Most girls think it’s gross, and hey, I get it. It’s a poop shoot...literally. But honestly, that’s what turns me on the most! I feel so dirty and sexy, that it makes the experience better! I tell my man to tell me I’m dirty la la la lol
Just have fun though girl, it’s no big deal ;)

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ladies, a little anal tip: the best position for starter anal is on your side. you won't feel the weird "pooping" feeling and it hurts less. being said though, you definitely gotta lube up! and stretch it out before it goes in. it's a lot more delicate than your other hole so I'd suggest starting with fingers and then once he can fit two (or three?) then he should stick it in. it actually feels amazing and it's a huge turn on. the first time I wished he had put his fingers in me too but it does feel good. just remember lube, and also take your time! 
if you choose to go with it.

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You really shouldn’t just jump straight into it, you gotta start small with a finger, then two, then three, then four, then maybe a butt plug, then do real anal. Use lube, lots and lots and lots and lots and lots and lots of lube, because your butt doesn’t wet itself like your vagina does. Don’t freak out either, relax or else it won’t feel good for you.

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I’ve done it. Lube up and relax. The biggest one is to relax. If you tense up, it’s going to hurt 100x worse! It’s extremely sexually pleasing! Have fun girl!

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After lots of begging I finally tried it with my man. It hurt the first time but we eventually figured out how much lube to use. Now I can do it if I'm really relaxed. It won't hurt me but I also get no pleasure from it. I only do it once in a while as a treat for him bc I know he likes it so much.
so long story short you can get through the pain but if it doesn't turn you on it probably never will lol

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ahhhebxjendue if you do it lmk bc I’m in the same boat 🤦🏼‍♀️

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The first time it hurt a lot I didn’t even get it all in but I was also doing it very wrong! If ur doing it right it shouldn’t hurt so much. I wasn’t using lube it was a very bad mistake:) use lots of lube! And relax. Don’t do it if ur not ready cause then ur body will be tense only do it if ur ready and u are ready for it:) if u are then go for it and have fun!!!

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get tons of lube and relax/ try to enjoy it.

should i let my boyfriend do anal???

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