Is he using me?

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My ex wants to get back together but he wants to have sex before he commits to anything. I’m still in high school and a virgin, I don’t know what to do and I need some advice incase I do something I might regret.

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If he’s looking for sex before he commits to anything, he is only looking to use you. If you sleep with him, I can guarantee you that he’s going to break it off right after and leave you with regret. Don’t do it, you can find someone way better who is willing to commit fully without needing your body for insurance.

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Do not do it! Using you 110%! 
I'm a firm believer in showing there is a commitment BEFORE having sex whether it's the first time or the thousandth time.

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Don't do it! If he needs sex before he commits to a relationship with you then he's not ready to be in a committed relationship. He just wants sex not to be a faithful boyfriend otherwise why would he want it BEFORE resuming a relationship? You can do better!

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He is using don’t do. It chick you I deserve better  xx

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absolutely using you

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When I was younger I was in the exact same situation- and I regret my choice. He’s just twisting your emotions to get what he wants. Trust me, save your first time for someone who loves you ❤️

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You tell him that he can’t get the goodies without the commitment… And at this point, I wouldn’t believe him if he said he were going to give the commitment to you first. He’s made it very clear what he really wants from you. If I were in your shoes, I would tell him to fuck off!

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God please no, 100 percent using you it definitely will not last. please don't speak to him again.

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Don’t do it, he’s just saying he wants to have sex with you and then get back together but I’ve been in that situation it always ends with them bragging about it to his mates. Don’t do it, just do you and tell him to bugger off, and that he’s Not gonna get anything from you until he commits

Is he using me?

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