So my mom had ordered two cards in my name. I had one and she had the other. Recently she lost the other card (this will be the second time). Now an unauthorized transaction has came on my card, and even though the only reason that this happened was because she insisted on having two seperate cards, she still wants to order another card in my name when I already have one. Her excuse is that I won't give her the money for bills which is not true because I've done so before. I want my money to be dictated by me. This has been a constant problem between us because I feel entitled to the money I make from both of my jobs and I'll be damned if I can't control my money and where it goes. I don't want her to have any access to my money anymore unless it's through me , but she still thinks that I don't know what I'm doing and wants all the money from one job. I'm trying to save for a vacation and I am planning to move out this year and I can't risk any of my money .