What should I do?😬

Hi ladies

So I’m kinda of a mess really! I’m 37 years old and been happily married for 11 years now . I have two daughters (10&7) and I’m a full time teacher.

Last March my husband dropped the bomb that he would like to have more kids ,can’t say I didn’t agree at first ,I’ve been having the same thoughts myself😅

But that was just it ,thoughts!

It’s been 10 months now after removing my IUD but still no BFP😢

I can’t say we were actively “trying” though-if you know what I mean- mainly because we’re too busy,we don’t have time which makes one wonder if we don’t have time for “making” the baby shouldn’t it be a bad idea to have one!?

It’s been an emotional roller coaster especially with my mum passing away last summer and this last cycle my period was late for a whole week and it almost never does that and after getting all excited it showed up last Thursday.

I just want to throw the towel and give it a rest but I think about my husband and don’t want to be unfair to him.HELP!