When did you tell people you were trying

Me and my husband have been trying for2 years every month I motivate myself to keep trying but every time I get a negative I lose hope all over again and family member constantly keep asking when we will have kids, at first I didnt say anything because I was embarrassed and just wanted to keep private.? But the comments do get kind of depressing and annoying I was just wondering how long did yall keep it a secret did yall just come out with it after trying for so long or keep it to yourself im debating what’s best before I make a mistake I regret