frustrated super super frustrated

I need to rant I'm sorry but I need to rant. My fiancé of 1 year will NOT STOP SMOKING POT!!!! I used to smoke it with him but I quit due to illness. I've tried everything fucking everything from rewards and surprises nothing works begging crying screaming talking nothing at all. Im desperate here I'm sick of it it makes me fucking miserable because i have to buy everything and pay for everything but he just spends his money on the stupid fucking dope and it's pissing me off. I WANT TO GO OUT ON DATES I WANT TO BE SHOWN OFF buuut no like that's gonna happen anytime soon. I hate this. I hate feeling like I don't matter.