I have a friend who just gave birth to her son, she is a first time mama. I really haven’t told anyone that I have been ttc for 4 months. So I FaceTime her and ask how she’s doing and the baby, etc. Then at one point she’s like “don’t do it cathy! Never have kids they cry and cry and depend on you so much.” It hurt my feelings because honestly I am so ready to have a little person depending on me. I know she was joking, but it hurt a little. I know she doesn’t know, but for the past 4 months seeing those bfn results it breaks my heart a little. I don’t lose hope, but it does affect me each time. With what she said, made me mad and sad only because it took her to conceive the first month she tried. Everyone is different, but still.

Baby dust to you all ttc! Hopefully soon it will be our turn! ♥️