Single mom

Nayara

I'm 20 and with 13 weeks pregnant for the first time. I'm with the father of my baby for 2 years. We broke up because of fights with 1 year together. Then we started seeing each other after 7months apart and I got pregnant. So we started dating again. He's 28 years old. When I told him he said that it wasn't because of the baby, that he liked me a lot and wanted to be with me for real.

Then our plan was for him to buy everything for his apartment, then for the baby's room after we figured out the sex, then we were going to live together and he promised me would take care at the baby at night so I could go to college. But because of hormones we have been fighting a lot.

Yesterday I asked If he wanted to be with me yet and he agreed, but when I asked if he wanted to live with me he said that he wasn't sure, that maybe it wasn't going to work out because at the first fight he would leave. That he didn't know if he really loved me and that we need to love somebody a lot to get married. He also said that if I move in soon we would have to het married and he was afraid of committing a mistake and choosing the wrong person.

I asked if he was sure, he said that he wasn't, that he liked me a lot. So we decided to try to stop fighting for the next weeks and live together only if we succeed. But I'm hurt and scared. I really love him and I don't know what to do. Please, somebody help me. He does so much for me that I always felt loved. He always said he did loved me. Now I'm confused.