I need help. Or maybe I just need to vent. 😔 my husband and I have a 2 year old son that we both adore, he’s our world and we never imagined having more than one child. (To start with our son wasn’t planned as I got pregnant when I was 18 and had him at 19). My husband and I are now 21 almost 22, still working on obtaining successful careers, plus we live in a very expensive state (CA) and where we are the renters market is HORRIBLE. There is nowhere to rent, hence we are renting from our in laws in the spare attached rental home for cheap so we can save and get on our feet better as we are a younger family/couple. Anyway, my husband and I were using condoms to prevent pregnancy and one of them broke leading to me now being 10 weeks pregnant. When I told my husband, his immediate response was angry(ish) and that “we can’t keep it”. Yes I knew this too, financially we aren’t in a position where a second baby is able to be brought into our family without us seriously struggling to get on our feet. It’s going to set us back exponentially.... over a few weeks, my feelings have changed and I just feel like I can’t kill my baby, it didn’t do anything to deserve having their life taken away. I went as far as making an appointment at a women’s health center to obtain the abortion pills but I just couldn’t go through with it.😢 I guess I’m asking you, how do I approach my husband in a delicate way to let him know my mind has changed???? Please help me choose the right wording to bring it up to him or how to start the conversation.😥