Did I over react??!

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Soooo me and my boyfriend were at a friends party about a year ago ad everyone was drinking and enjoying ourselves as you do.. I was in a different room on the couch trying to sleep and my boyfriend in the room next to me with others, I over heard him talking to a girl he knew saying how amazing she was and that all the boys thought she was "class looking" I confronted him next day and was so angry and hurt I broke up with him 😩 we got back 4 weeks later after sorting things out and have been together ever since. 
Last night we were at his sisters birthday party the girl was there who he was chatting up that night😪 she kept dancing and bumping into him trying to get his attention probly. I also kept catching him looking at her the whole night and my blood is boiling 😡😡.. so we got home and it started a whole argument I got so angry I slapped him on the face and told him to never talk to me again, I haven't stopped crying since and I'm deeply hurt😪 I'm 8 months pregnant also! Am I overreacting or is it my hormones??!

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ummm you are in the wrong I don't care how jealous you are never put your hands on someone else.

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It’s really hard because I know I’d 100% be upset and jealous. 
However if it was reversed and a female was talking to a male and her boyfriend slapped her on the face because of it we all know what we’d say.... 😞🤷🏻‍♀️

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sounds like you have a piece of work on your hands. definitely not overreacting,  but late pregnancy does have a way of exaggerating your emotions. good luck!

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No matter how upset you are you should NEVER physically abuse someone. You may be in the right for being upset but abusing someone you are not.

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It’s probably a bit of your extra hormones and old emotions. I’m an extremely jealous person and now that I’m pregnant I’m way less confident in myself so when my husband talks about co-workers I always get upset when he mentions the females 🙄 but I couldn’t have hit him over glances her way. I would definitely apologize but explain why you felt so bad and why it brought you to do that.

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Girl you are not over reacting I would have felt the same way. I actually just found out my bf is "secret messaging" someone on facebook. ( who knew that was a thing) Anyways I can't stop crying and don't know what to do. I would just talk to him about it again and say you will leave this time for good

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What a pig! You are feeling vulnerable because you are pregnant and why does he need to be telling her how good she looks while you are out of the room. It's shady! Would he have said it if you were sitting next to him? The fact that she was all over him the second time around means she has no respect for your relationship and he doesn't either because he should have told her to stop. Watch out they are both crossing a line. I can understand why you would feel like that and lash out verbally at him, slapping him is definitely hormone related. Im not saying it's right or I condone it but it's not like you bashed him - say sorry and move on- you don't need counselling as some said above - sometimes people take things too far when they are vulnerable and upset as long as your not slapping him regularly you just need to take a deep breath and look after yourself xx

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You hit your partner. You are jealous, controlling and over dramatic. I hope you get your temper sorted, go to therapy, apologise SO much to him or he will (and should) leave you. Seriously, if this was the other way around. omg people would freak out.

Did I over react??!

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