Bed time

So here we are, 14 months in and still have a “4 month old” for bed time. She refuses to sleep most nights. It’s such a fight. She still wakes up 3-4 times to nurse. I have tried everything cry it out, no cry, co sleeping. EVERYTHING. she has a good meal before bed, only has one nap during the day, and gets plenty of play time. I don’t know what to do. I have not slept a straight 6 hours in over a year and this mama is getting tired.

Random side note, she also refuses to feed herself even though she has the ability to do so.