High expectations?

Hey ladies!

This whole post is probably going to make me sound like a whiny, ungrateful person.

Backstory: my husband and I met 2 1/2 years ago. We were engaged 6 months after we met, married the year after. I got pregnant two months after we got married, and now we have a beautiful baby girl. The problem is, we never had time for us, by the means of a vacation. He’s not the overly romantic type, but I know he loves me. Life is so incredibly hectic right now (baby, new house, etc) but I’ve been asking him to plan a small getaway, maybe for the weekend or so, just the two of us. I know I can do it, but I want him to put in some effort. I feel like we’re just roommates, sorta of on auto pilot. So many occasions have passed by (our first wedding anniversary happened two weeks after I gave birth) but nothing has been planned. I’ve explained all of this to him so many times, but his excuse it always “I’m no good at it, you do it and I’ll go along”. 🙄 Am I being unrealistic and unreasonable? Should I just suck it up and plan sometime?