boyfriend addicted to porn?

Am I the only one in a relationship who thinks her man is addicted to porn and that he'd rather jerk off then have sex?

I'm a very sexual person and I have started to doubt myself and my looks because he never seems to want sex, when we do its lacking passion and I feel like he isn't really there.

he didn't have a girlfriend for like 5 years before we met and didn't really have a lot of sex but watched a lot of porn.

one time we we're at his house (this was the beginning of our relationship) and I really wanted to have sex. but he was worried about making noise and his roommate would hear because the walls are so thin. so whatever I ended up falling asleep, but I woke up a while later to find him sitting at his desk jerking off to porn. like WTF. (in the same room)

I have talked to him and been open with the way I feel, it causes most of our fights.. he admits that he does watch lots of porn but that it doesn't affect the way he thinks about me. that he loves me so much and thinks I'm beautiful, but I kinda feel like actions speak louder than words.

I could go on and on, I just wanted to see if I'm the only one going through this or maybe I'm a crazy bitch and I know it's normal for guys to watch porn. but it makes me feel so bad especially when he never starts sex with me and when he does it's more like hey should we have sex? Anyways ladies please tell me what you think!