Cleaning up after your man vent/expectations of a girlfriend

I just got out of the hospital for the past 2 weeks. When I came home the house was filthy. (Like a man has been living here for 2 weeks alone) the toilets need scrubbing the laundry needs folding the showers need scrubbing. Im still recovering from some amnesia and my short term memory is almost non existent and am finding it difficult to get back into the swing of things. But he's getting angry with me that im not doing my duties or when I forget to close a cabinet or a drawer. Im trying like really hard but he doesn't want to hear it be in his mind I did this to myself. In just so frustrated and I don't know what to do but vent.