Losing my virginity

So I booty called this guy a couple nights ago because I really wanted to lose my virginity. Anyway I was drunk so I couldn't get wet and we tried to have sex but i made him stop because it hurt literally so fucking bad and now my vagina still hurts. I'm not gonna lie I've been really desperate to have sex but now that I tried I'm kind of discouraged. Does it hurt like this every time?? Should i just stop trying so hard and wait for a while??