Idk what’s going on. Sorry about the length

So me and this guy has been talking since April through phone. We actually met a month later in may. Now we been taking, texting and FaceTiming. We celebrated our birthdays in August and November together. And in July he tells me that he really like me and that we’re just not having sex. Which I honestly didn’t know how he felt. But after that I fell head over heels for him. But yet he said he’s not ready for a relationship. I mean I want really either. But in August My sister asked if he was my BF he said we’re working towards it. I was like alright cool. Then I asked him in November, and he said the same thing. In my mind I’m like wtf we still working towards. I done slept over this man house multiple times. Took him to work, he met my whole family and he took me to my college homecoming dance. All my friends and family say I need to leave him but in all honesty I never felt like this before about a guy. Im not even talking to no other dude just him, the sex is amazing, but we don’t have it enough. But I gone feel like he puts everything else before. Some month I only see him one time, but we talk everyday. I’m soo confused