WTF DOES THIS GUY MEAN?!
a little bit of context.. the other night I was hanging out with a friend who I hadn’t seen in awhile. Long story short, he ends up laying in my bed (not with me) after a night of drinking. He asks if he can stay and chill in my room. I tell him no I have work the next day. He doesn’t leave and I have to ask him again and he’s like ‘are you gonna force me?’ and I was like no.. he gets up and leaves. Next morning he’s like ‘hope I didn’t do anything weird last night :/‘ and I was like no you’re good. By now i’ve talked with my roommates and they think he was trying to sleep with me. I see his friend at work the next day so I bring up how we were hanging out, and he says ‘oh yeah he’s been hooking up lately, i’m not surprised.’ so I message the guy ‘dtf or nah?’ he sends back ‘wait, did i say that the other night?’ i said ‘no, i’m saying that to you now.’ he sends back ‘hmm.’
the next day at work he asks me what all he said in my room, and i tell him and he apologizes and says he wasn’t trying to be forceful. and i’m like no you’re good. then he doesn’t talk to me for a few days so i message him again and say ‘i’m still dtf if you are.’ he sends back ‘lol hmm’ i say ‘isn’t the girl supposed to play coy?’ he says ‘lol idk i just don’t wanna answer.’ i say ‘why’ he says ‘too much’ i say ‘too much what?’ he reads but doesn’t reply. i send ‘if you wanna say no you can.’ he doesn’t reply back. also he’s being flirty with me at work. i’m just confused. does he want to hook up or not??
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