Love him but idk if I️ want to leave him

My bf and i have been dating since Nov 2016. We met two months prior on tinder, he knew i came from a traditional, religious, and family oriented background. He knew my mom was a helicopter mom but he fought to stay with me even when i told him to find another girl that fits his lifestyle more but he stayed and we began dating. My dilemma rn is that I’m still very in love with him but i just don’t feel very fulfilled in this relationship anymore. Yes he says he loves me and is very supportive in my life choices and protective of me from my controlling mother but there are some things that bother me about him and have bothered me from the beginning. He’s a bit childish but i was hoping college would mature him a bit more, he’s a HUGE penny pincher and barely spends money on me (I’m not a gold digger but i have an issue if you expect me to pay you back for paying for a $7 meal or feel like buying gifts are dumb and a waste of money) and i just feel like we haven’t been having any memorable moments lately it’s just been very bland and if I️m not the one messaging him we won’t talk all day. I know I️ do love him and he does love me but i just don’t feel like it’ll be enough to hold us together for a lifetime. Idk if this made sense or if i was clear about everything but i guess this was the gist of it, ladies what should i do?