How to have clear consent in a relationship?

Question

The guy I’m sleeping with is a very kind person and is great with asking me if I want to do things for the most part. But when I give him head he is kind of pushy. I have a bad gag reflex and I can’t do it for very long but he always begs and pushes my head down. I feel bad because I really like to make him happy but I don’t like the way he makes me feel when I give him head

Answer

Tell him to just let you do your thing and for him to lay back and relax. That way you have all the control and when you feel like it's all too much you can get him out of your mouth when you need to.

Answer

You can either try breathing when you go deeper. Take a deep breath and take more “meat” in. Or you can tell him let’s temporarily stop.... and if you don’t feel comfortable then maybe you should go with someone who really cares about your feelings and wants to make you feel good.

Answer

I think guys tend to get carried away when it comes to blowjobs when I first started doing them for my husband I told him not to touch me lol whenever he would put his hand on my head I would immediately stop and tell him no. I would have to do that maybe 3 times during a blowjob eventually he got the idea and he still doesn't put his hands on my head lol he'll just grab my arm instead.

How to have clear consent in a relationship?

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