the unhappy wife

i feel unhappy in my marriage that is because i feel my husband is not passionate about me. and he doesn't love me. neither does he care. we don't have kids but we are desperate. he doesn't spend money on me, i am independent and he doesn't remember my needs. he doesn't miss me. he chooses his cousins over me. what do i do to have his attention. i feel unloved :( Update : yrs we talk he apologizes but doesn't change. he doesn't even take interest in our arguments :(