Earning inequality

Pretend for a moment that your SO makes more money literally sitting in the toilet pooping than you do in an entire 8 hour work day.

This has been the situation for 4 + years. Bills are always paid. Wants and needs all met, food in the cupboards and cars in the garage and new shoes on all the kids’ feet etc etc...There’s not a huge savings fund, we don’t own a house, but we do enjoy vacations a couple times a year and not having to think twice about buying dinner once in a while for all our friends or making donations at church.

Today out of the blue my SO tells me he wants to change banks and get me a special account with a bottom. He didn’t really give a reason, he agreed that my spending habits haven’t changed or anything but he just wants me to have an allowance and not a penny more. We haven’t agreed yet on what that allowance will be in particular...he said he wants to be able to track my spending. Where i shop. What i buy. And he wants to cut off access to our main account and take over all of the bills. ( right now we do about half and half with bills and i do all the house hold shopping )

Would this raise any red flags for anyone?

Is this a form of control or abuse ? It is technically almost all HIS money after all, but we have always shared.