Pooping?

Sarah • 19. Rilee Page ❤️ 8Ibs 1oz, 21 inches long 😍 5.25.15
So I had my daughter Monday and the last time I pooped was right before I went to the hospital. I'm passing gas and I feel like I have to poop. But when I try it's kind of hard and I'm afraid it's going to hurt my stitches. How long did you ladies go without pooping? Was it painful? Should I ask my doctor for stool softner?