I know this isn’t super related to pregnancy but I’m not not sure where to vent this all out, so Currently me and my husband let a “friend” stay with us, and use that loosely now because of how he’s been acting. We currently live in a 2 bedroom apartment, moving in May to a bigger place, and currently I’m 14 weeks pregnant so I’m already emotional as it is. Back in August we let my “friend” live with us because he was getting kicked out, even tho he said he was getting kicked out a lot but really never did... but anyway so I said hey why not let him stay he can pay for rent and help us a little bit, he promised us $400 when he moved in... he moved in, he gave us $20... then he didn’t have a job for months, then got a job then quit after a week... then didn’t have a job again. But I didn’t complain I was nice and understanding, and also since this is important later on we told him that he had to put himself on the lease since he’s paying and being with us and to get a key because then he doesn’t have to use mine or my husbands, well months gone he finally gets a job because of a friend... I live in Utah and currently reside in bountiful and my husband works in Draper, he got a job in Murray (since he doesn’t have a car, or tried to get one he’s been getting rides from my husband to work and from) once he got a job he started taking my key to leave, which leaves me with no key and no way to lock my door, granted I’m a stay at home wife, but at the time I was doing a lot of photography, but I couldn’t do a lot of them because he kept taking my key... which frustrates me, I had to have my sister stay at my house multiple times so I know the door is locked so I could go do photos, while he went out of the apartment and in all he liked. Finally I got my key back, but he still didn’t have one... after we told him to sign the lease and get a key multiple times... so suddenly he started coming home early from work... which means I have to let him in, which means I couldn’t really go anywhere or he would be stuck outside. So finally about November I broke, one day I freaked out at him! I was tired of this, I couldn’t do anything I wanted or needed and that day specifically I was exhausted so my patience was gone, I told him I’m not his mother I’m not gonna baby him anymore and he knew that he needed to sign the lease and get a key, that I’m fucking tired of this bullshit and to grow up, my husband is kind man and wanted things to be okay again so he got frustrated at me for being upset at him, we fought and I wanted to cool off for a few days, so i did then I proceeded to apologize for yelling and not handling it a certain way, he said okay didn’t accept my apology and walked away I didn’t get upset because I knew people need time to think it over, I was thinking a week or something that’s totally normal, no he hasn’t spoken to me since then... like okay you live in my house and this is how I’m treated... now in December he told my husband specifically because like I said he hasn’t talked to me, he found a place to live and will leave end of January, me thinking thank goodness because it’s been over a month of him ignoring me and I can’t live like this anymore, now it’s two weeks before January is over, he has had plenty of time to say something to me or my husband with the moving and stuff, but not a word... not tell yesterday when my husband asked him... when what where how he’s gonna leave, and he goes “oh ya that didn’t work, so I can’t leave the end of January” I’m sorry... but WHAT?! You have to tell us this now once we ask you that you aren’t leaving and how you want to stay till May... when are lease is over, when you can’t even fucking look at me in the eye, if me and my husband are in the kitchen... you make it super awkward, your bed room is constantly a mess as well as the bathroom you use, you don’t buy fucking food, you ask for rides to work when my husband has the day off, and you think we will let you stay till May. I am angry, but also frustrated I don’t want to be a bitch and kick him to the street to be homeless but this isn’t fair! You don’t do anything for us, you constantly constantly ignore me. I’m honestly stuck here!! I need advice on what to do... because I can’t live another month, week, day with him. He doesn’t fucking care about anyone but himself... and I’m tired of giving him things. I want him gone, when I was promised he would be gone! What do I do?!