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Back in September I had my baby girl at 35 weeks, but she was only 33 week gestation and was 4 lbs. I was expressing how I kind of feel robbed on a lot of things since she had to go to the nicu straight after birth. howbi really hope the next one goes smoother and I have a more normal delivery. someone

really told me to count my blessings because it could be a lot worse, and that I'm lucky I was able to experience it. WHAT?! My daughter is and always will be my blessing and the best thing that has ever happened to me, why is it wrong for me to never want to go through that again and feel the way I feel?! what's worse, was it was my own sister who said it. 😟